Art for Deep Reflection (1) – Handshake of Caution

Picture by Titi Horsfall

I walked passed this statue in London and was struck by the sheer sense of caution it evoked. Caution as to who one should reach out to, give a handshake or bring into a close circle. Then there was this stark realisation that both individuals were mirroring each other. The other person is also treading with caution. Once bitten, twice shy! This would serve for character profiling in a nice, warm toe-curling story.

There is an African adage that says ‘it is people that make people get spoilt.’ People have learnt that distrust is a safety net to put in place until proven wrong or the negative perception is dispelled. Who would make the first move of opening up his or her arms for an embrace and not feel violated or threatened if another comes to share a space. Who would not read negative meanings to every innocent action another has taken. Who would be outright in taking down his or her mask and feel comfortable in their vulnerability. Notice, that as long as their hands are stretched out in that handshake of caution, fear is imminent! Their heads are not raised up. They cannot look around them and live in the moment.

So many potential friendships were not let to grow because of past hurts and prejudices. Relationships built on love, were never enough because the baggage of the past always haunted and unforgiveness was a stronger vice than contemplated.

Staring at this statue, I was confounded with our modern realities of building relationships with caution. The cycle can go on endlessly. Let’s make deliberate effort to do something nice for someone every day or whenever we have the opportunity to; a warm greeting, a nod of acknowledgement and then, that handshake of common solidarity.

 

Titi Horsfall

Decisions

Before you take that decision, think again and think through. Put it through a test. Would it fit into your value system and your dreams?

We all make decisions on a daily basis. Mine for instance usually falls within the field of family, work and my writing.

A few years ago, I took a decision that was life-altering, for the sake of family and its wellness. I was on a constant go until all was certain. Years after, I re-evaluated and realised that in taking that decision, I had changed. That audacity to push through brought with it courage and a changed persona.

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CODE OF CONDUCT

A code of conduct is a set of rules outlining the social norms, religious rules and responsibilities of, and or proper practices for, an individual (Wikipedia).

The first code of conduct issued to mankind, was to Adam and Eve, in the Garden of Eden.

I have always been fascinated with Adam and Eve’s story, particularly how they made their decision in abiding by the set rule.

What rule where they tasked with? See Genesis 2.

And out of the ground the Lord God made every tree grow that is pleasant to the sight and good for food. The tree of life was also in the midst of the garden, and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.

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TRUE SELF-EXPRESSION

At the onset of my literary journey, was a burning desire to express my thoughts and self. Wasn’t much of a talker, but found great ease in writing. I turned to poetry.

I read a lot of old English poems. By old, I mean 18th/19th century writers. I loved John Keats and Lord Byron. I fell in love with Jane Austen’s works; witty, clever banter and lovely exchanges amongst the characters. I read Shakespeare and adored the archaic English with its heady dose of figurative language. In the background, I was reading psalms and singing hymns in our local church. For the latter, I was amazed at the poetic ensemble!

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Book Review – Intertwine of Two Young Hearts on the Path of Faith

Book: Influence of a King
Book Reviewer: Anote Ajeluorou; The Guardian, Nigeria
Source: The Guardian Newspaper, Nigeria
Date: 12 June 2016

Titi Horsfall’s fictional narrative, Influence of a King (Deep River Books, Oregon, U.S.; 2015), her second after From an Orphan to a Queen Esther, is the unusual story of two young hearts born in far-flung places, but who would find anchor at a time of momentous world crisis. It is the story of Nigerian’s Kanyam and English boy Chad, also of Nigerian roots, whom fate brings together in the most unusual circumstances and how they find undying love.

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Book Reading – Titi Horsfall’s Influence of a King and From an Orphan to a Queen; Esther

7TH MAY 2016 BY TITI HORSFALL

Book Reading

Titi Horsfall’s Influence of a King and From an Orphan to a Queen; Esther

Terra Kulture, Lagos State, Nigeria.

Guests from all works of life; lovers of arts and literature, writers, corporate professionals, businessmen and women, the academia, and distinguished members of the press were treated to a unique literary evening on Saturday, March 5, 2016. Venue was strategically chosen – one of Africa’s best arts and culture center –Terra Kulture.

Organised by the Association of Nigerian Authors (ANA) Lagos State Branch, in conjunction with Terra Kulture, the event was the Book Reading of Titi Horsfall’s novels; Influence of a King and From an Orphan to a Queen; Esther. These novels have launched the author into Nigeria’s creative writers’ conclave.

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Why We Need More Women Leaders Pt. 2

I join women the world over, to celebrate the International Women’s Day. Keying into the pledge for parity, I pledge to help women and girls achieve their ambitions #IWD2016.

In Part 1 of this topic, I explored the myth regarding women’s roles. Now, it is time to face our reality.

Profile and Reputation

Selecting one to run for either the exalted office of the president of a country, or the position of an office clerk, requires background check. When applying for a job, assessors want to know where that person has worked or been, and the backlog of experiences. Some visa applications require evidence of past travel, financial history, employment status, family records etc. Exam records are reviewed in selecting candidates for academic admission. With appropriate records, opportunities surface for attention. The apples become quite low hanging.

With the required profile in place, any woman can aspire for greater things.

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